Support for Significant Others, Friends, Family, and Allies (SOFFAs) of Transgender People




Crossdressing SOFFA Support:
Children of CDs list
Wives CD bill of rights
Helping Wives of Crossdressers to Understand and Cope, October 1998
Telling Your Children, February 1999
Children and Crossdressing part one, July 1999
Children and Crossdressing part two, August 1999
Two People, One Relationship, December 1999
So, Whose Fault is it?, March 2001
Talking to Children about Gender Identity Issues, March 2001
Too Much of a Good Thing! a story about wives and crossdressers
Multiple Choice, accepting crossdressing
Views From A Crossdresser's Wife
Even Genetic Girls Get the Blues
 

MTF Transsexual SO Support:
Anita's Transspouse Page
For Wives and Significant Others of Transsexuals
Fun In A Transgendered Relationship?
 

FTM Transsexual SO Support:
FTMInfo's SOFFA info
Your SOFFA Voice Newsletter
Significance, for SO's of FTMs (has a message board for personal experiences)
Transensual Femmes "is a place for Femmes who are primarily attracted to transgendered butches and other guys on the transgender spectrum." Bibliographies, links, personal writings.
Trans-positioned, an article of a partner of an FTM
Neophyte, the journey of a female to male transsexual and his partner
 

Transsexual SOFFA Support (non-specific):
What Kind of Things Build Intimacy In A Relationship?
Various Resources
More Various Resources
Trans-gender Expressions SOFFA support
 

Family Support:
Mermaids, Family Support for Children/Teens with Gender Identity Issues
Hypospadias: Parent's Guide to Intersex Surgery
TransFamily of Cleveland
Our Trans Children Booklet (Adobe Acrobat Required)
 

Personal webpages, stories, and experiences of SOFFAs:
personal webpage
Vivian's Tranny SO Page
Big TG Ranch
Katherine's Story, A Wife's Tale of Discovery
I Like it! a story about a woman's changing sexuality
 

Especially for Kids:
Children of CDs list
Children of Transsexuals
Resources For People of all ages with Transgender Parents
Families Like Mine (not specifically Trans-related)
 

Basic and Frequently Asked Questions for SOFFAs:
Basic Terms
More Basic Terms
Proper Pronouns
Am I Right To Feel This Way?
 

Letters to SOFFAs:
An Open Letter to the Parents, Family and Friends of a Transsexual
Letters of Disclosure
Letters to Loved Ones
 

Meetings in Michigan:
1st and 3rd Sundays. A support group for friends, family and loved ones of Transgender people. Meets the first and third Sundays of every month from 6-8 pm at Comprehensive Gender Services Offices at 4990 Clark Road, suite 300, Ypsilanti (located at the corner of Clark Rd, and Golfside). If anyone is interested in directions or have questions, they may contact Alfreda Rooks Jordan at 528.0895.
 

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